I will be the first to admit that finding love is hard. Not the material love that you see nowadays but genuine real love. The love that makes you feel like you’re soaring above Atlanta’s skyline; the one you feel will last. Atlanta is no different than any other big city— a ton of bachelors and eager bachelorettes willing to fall for a guy who resembles a prince. But let’s be real, no one said finding love would be easy. No one said that getting hurt wouldn’t happen nor did anyone say that finding a soul mate would be simple because we do not live in a fairy tale world.
These things are true, but as a hopeless romantic I believe that there is someone out there for everyone. If Atlanta is a place where musical talents and other artistic means can flourish, why can’t love be found? I believe it’s all in the matter of who you are and where you are emotionally.
There is a difference between being a bitter person and a person who is heartbroken. Bitter is being totally against love because of past experiences like a failed relationship. It’s being completely negative on the idea of finding someone who will complete your sentences, make you smile and will take care of you mentally, physically, and emotionally. Being bitter is when someone forgets that there is someone out there for everyone and totally disrespects the idea of someone else being optimistic about it.
Heartbroken is a totally different thing than being bitter. When someone’s heartbroken they are upset or depressed that the person they thought they were meant to be with failed them. It’s a pain that can’t be described especially after being together a while. Being heartbroken is only temporary because most times it takes a multitude of heartbreaks to even turn the person against love in the first place. Usually people who are heartbroken find another person that makes them happy that restores the hope of that true love they desire. They aren’t angry, male or female bashing, or lashing out against happy couples.
In order to find true love, it’s a matter of is the person complete within themselves. A person needs to be truly happy with being alone, needs to know their own strengths and weaknesses before moving on, and accept that the past is the past and that they can’t take their pain out on the future person in their lives. Look in the mirror, if you can smile every morning alone than it may be time for you to explore dating.
Being a hopeless romantic in this day and age is a difficult thing to do, but someone has got to believe that love will conquer all. If not all, conquer a bitter heart and make them a believer again.
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