Men think that you like the friendship talk. The way they talk to their friends and you somehow sounds the same.
The language of love is not mixed with beer nuts, toilet stalls and club parking lot jabber. Women like to be spoken to with gentle whispers and soft tongues. A man who is smooth and knows how to keep a conversation going is one who doesn’t use profanity and obscenities every other word. The Webster dictionary ranks as a top selling book right up there with the Holy Bible, so use it. Some African Americans find it offensive to hear someone using the N word 100 hundred times in a sentence. The combination a person can use that word is ridiculous.
We as women don’t have time to find the man, give the man our phone number then tell the man how to talk to us well. Relationships are about partnerships not teacher student or let us not forget the classical mother and son role. So when the dirty talk starts to rear its ugly head that’s the moment you say, “not interested”. Can you really take someone seriously if they can’t keep a 5 minute phone conversation without the use of profanity? The barrier men and women struggle to get over stands tall and wide. You could possible welcome a challenge and try to decipher his lingo with an open mind. Just know bad habits are hard to break and that behavior might carry over into a time when you’re e keeping company with your mother and a host of friends.