Why is it so hard to find a decent man nowadays? It’s as if all the decent men have taken some sort of potion that have made them only want friends with benefits.
It is common knowledge the desire of early 20-something guys wanting to bed every woman walking their college campus. For them it’s a way of life. It’s their first chance at parental freedom and finding themselves. What many don’t understand is what happens once guys enter their late 20’s and early 30’s.
The old days of going to college falling love then marrying your college/ high school sweetheart are over. In today’s world you date for months even years only to hear him say ‘I am not ready for commitment right now’ or ‘ I am really focused on my career.’
Men think we should wait around for them while they sow their royal oats. They want us to hang out with them even do all of the things a girlfriend would do, yet not officially offer us the title. Totally ignore our biological clocks incessant ticking. Act as if from the moment we could walk our mothers haven’t been preparing us to be a great wives and mothers.
How is it a man can genuinely love one woman yet lay down with three others? That is a science that should be taught to women in school right after sex education. We would learn how to separate our emotions from sex, like a man, thus protecting ourselves from years of pain and heartache.
Experience has taught me to always be upfront about your wants, needs, and desires. When those feelings change don’t worry about them walking away or you missing out on a good man. The truth is, if the shoe were on the other foot, he’d have no issues informing you that you’re just a friend with benefits.
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